As your bump gets bigger, I recommend that you try the spoons position (on your
sides with him lying behind) as this is a comfortable position for him to hold
you in his arms. As you know, this can be challenging when you’re big and
pregnant. Another behind position could be with you on all fours; you could adapt
this one by leaning over a tower of pillows. Alternatively, you on top positions
let you control his depth and rhythm but watch out for pelvic discomfort in any
wide leg positions.
I don’t know how to tell her but I just don’t get turned on by
her pregnant shape, what should I do?
You’re not alone in how you feel, for some guys the dramatic change in
your partners shape or even the reality of her pregnancy can be enough to stop
you getting aroused with her. I recommend that you start focusing on the positive
aspects of her body that you’ll always like, for example how soft her
skin feels, how you love her eyes, how silky her hair feels on your bare skin
etc and remember to tell her how much you love her, as she’ll be feeling