I feel so un-sexy in my milk stained feeding bra, any suggestions?

I suggest that you treat yourself to a sexy bra in a racy color that fits your breast-feeding size and shape and wear it whenever you want to give yourself a boost of confidence and energy. Some women prefer to wear a bra when they make love as it feels more comfortable and less messy so this sexy bra could be perfect for this. I'd also suggest the addition of breast pads for the inevitable leaks that come with arousal.